Jesus, This Day Is For You

Lord Jesus – whom I love and follow – continue your earthly ministry through me as I keep in step with your Spirit.

I desire to be more than productive – I want to be part of all that is in your heart for the people on my path. Grow me, prune me, cultivate me – for your glory and for my own delight.

Whatever fruit comes from this day, I will present to you – thankful and humbled to see you bring beautiful things out of the mess that is me.

And when my days on earth are done, I hope to lay at your feet an overflowing harvest from years as your disciple.

It’s all for you, both now and forever.

Amen

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Something Helpful For Your Marriage

If you know your spouse’s love language, speak it. If you don’t know it, learn it.

Gary Chapman’s famous book, The Five Love Languages, offers a framework for husbands and wives to understand and engage each other. While they are not gospel, and no better or worse than the numbers and wings, they are immensely helpful.

  • Words of Affirmation
  • Acts of Service
  • Receiving Gifts
  • Quality Time
  • Physical Touch

If you know your spouse’s love language, speak it. If you don’t know it, learn it.

Speak it as a ministry to your spouse. You are part of God’s plan for meeting their needs. Your care for them replenishes what daily life drains; it repairs what daily life attempts to tear apart.

Speak it as a free gift to your spouse – not an act of barter or a hook fishing for reciprocation. Be generous because it’s what you signed-up for. Make it a gift that doesn’t need a holiday or special occasion. Be intentional instead of forcing your spouse to have to ask for more of it. Yes, grownups should communicate what they need. But what if you relieved them of the waiting for the right time, strategizing the right words, the prefacing and stipulating?

Speak your spouse’s love language so that your spouse isn’t looking for someone outside of the marriage to speak it.

Talk about expectations.

Clarify which languages make the biggest impact on them.

Ask them what they need more of and less of. And if your spouse is already a fluent love language speaker, affirm and appreciate them.

If you are new to these concepts, then buy Dr. Chapman’s book—I guarantee that it’s available wherever books are sold. Buy it for yourself to grow in the ways you serve and spoil the person God gave you. Don’t buy it as a gift, hoping they will catch the hint. Even better—read it together.

If you know your spouse’s love language, speak it. If you don’t know it, learn it.

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Friends and Mentors and Coffee

One of the avenues for moving toward maturity in Christ is time spent with other Believers—intentionally talking about Jesus.

These friendships can turn into mentoring relationships over a meal, parked for a happy hour drink at Sonic, or sitting together for coffee. God has already placed people in your circle who would be honored to share wisdom, give wise counsel, and tell stories of their up and down again faith journey.

They aren’t perfect, they don’t have everything figured-out; they are simply a few miles farther down the road—a few laps ahead in running the disciple’s race. And they are God’s gift to you—to help you grow.

So text them. Call them. Setup a time to get together.

Here are some questions to get you started if you need ideas for when the food or Limeade or Ethiopian drip arrives:

•What parts of the Bible are most encouraging to you?
•What are some habits or resources that have helped you grow in Christ?
•Have you gone through any spiritually dry seasons?
•What has God taught you about being married?
•How do you bring your relationship with Jesus into your work life (or school life)?
•Tell me about a season of your life when you grew the most as a Christian?

Send that text. Make that call.

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The Sermon On The Mount

Large crowds followed Jesus around the Sea of Galilee as He taught, enlisted disciples, proclaimed the Gospel, and healed the sick.

Crowds.
Calls for help.
Shouts from the freshly healed.
Dusty paths from village to village.

Jesus brought focus to all this movement, sitting down on a hillside above the water. Those committed to Him moved in close, finding a spot to listen.

The sermon was more than dogma. Jesus gave details for how He wants us to live. His words were a kindness for those eager to go God’s way.

Blessed are you…

Jesus wrapped His blessing around the poor and the mournful, around the meek and the seekers of godliness. He spoke approval and affirmation to the merciful, to the pure in heart, to those who live as peacemakers, and to those who suffer for the sake of God’s name.

He announced purpose and mission upon ordinary people: “You are the salt of the earth. You are the light of the world.”

He taught us to go beyond the letter of the law with our actions and reactions, to understand deeper issues of the heart. In love, Jesus led us away from choices that end in heartache, regret, and consequences. He pointed us to paths of life, joy, peace, self-control, and victory.

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus instructs us to love each other. And also to love our enemies. He wants us to give, to pray, and to practice fasting, but never just for show. He calls us to intimate expressions of devotion and personal experiences with our God.

And in what is arguably the weightiest part of the teachings, Jesus invites us to address God as “Father.”

On the slopes above the Galilee, Jesus leaned-in to embrace our common fears, inviting us to trust God as we let go of worry. Jesus comforts and strengthens and encourages. Our Father knows what we need. Our Father loves us. Our Father has the power to creatively supply any situation. Our Father has a plan for all things.

Jesus directs us to resist judging others, while we give attention to our own shortcomings in the struggles of a God-honoring life.

He encourages us to ask, to seek, and to knock—with great faith in who our Father is, and in what our Father can do.  Everyone who asks—receives.

The narrow way.

Jesus loves us enough to set Truth in front of us. With divine authority, He declares: There are two roads—one leading to destruction and the other, found only by a few, leading to life. So we must choose.

There are true prophets and godly influences, yet some people are wolves in sheep’s clothing. So we must choose carefully, in who we allow to shape us.

There are true disciples, bought-in, all-in. And there are untrue disciples who like the idea of Jesus and the warmth of His comforting words. But they have no interest in full commitment, in following, in obedience. We must self-examine and choose which kind of disciple we will be.

And there are two foundations on which to build a life. One, is built on the words and ways of Jesus. The other, built on the patterns of the world and what seems right in our own minds. We must choose our foundation with care because life’s storms are inevitable. When they overtake us, only the life built on Jesus will endure.

Our Jesus is so generous.

He wants us to live.

He wants us to make it through the storms.

“When Jesus had finished saying these things, the crowds were amazed at His teaching.” (Matthew 7:28 NIV)

Our Jesus is amazing.

He came to show us the Father, to save us from ourselves, and to lead us toward a fruitful, hope-filled life.

All of this—and more—is in the Sermon on the Mount.

If it has been a while since you’ve soaked in it, spend a few weeks in Matthew 5, 6, and 7.

Move in close. Find a spot, and listen to Jesus.

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